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Volume 3 · Honest HereticsLesson 30About 22 minutes

“Everything Happens for a Reason”

When something terrible happens, do you need it to have a reason?

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The center · Luke 13:4
4Or those eighteen on whom the tower in Siloam fell and killed them—do you think that they were worse offenders than all the men who dwell in Jerusalem?

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It is said at funerals, in hospital hallways and in sympathy cards. Everything happens for a reason. God has a plan. He needed another angel. People say it out of love, wanting to give meaning to something senseless. Sometimes it helps. Often it lands like one more weight on someone already carrying too much.

You're not imagining the harm. "Everything happens for a reason" can tell a grieving parent that God wanted their child to die, and its harsher cousin tells the survivors of a disaster that they had it coming. Well-known preachers have said exactly that on national television. Jesus was asked this question directly, and he answered no.

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An add-on
Explaining every tragedy as God's plan adds a reason Jesus never gave; when it says the sufferer had it coming, it contradicts him outright.

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