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The Two Greatest Commandments

If everything you believe had to hang on two sentences, which two would they be?

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40The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.”

In this lesson

Part one asked who is at the center. Part two asks what he put there. Jesus was asked that question directly, and he answered it in two sentences. Almost every Christian knows them by heart, and they are the most neglected.

Ask a Christian what their faith requires and you may hear a list: what to believe, what not to do, which side to vote for. If you've been handed a list like that and told it was God's, you know the frustration. Jesus was asked the same question and answered in two sentences, with no list attached.

Read it3 min

In the last week of his life, Jesus was teaching in the courts of the Temple in Jerusalem, and the religious experts were testing him with hard questions. One of them asked the hardest of all.

Who's who: A scribe was an expert in the Jewish Law, the commands God gave through Moses. The Temple in Jerusalem was the center of Jewish worship. "Hear, Israel" begins the Shema, the prayer devout Jews said every morning and evening, then and now.
Mark 12:28-34
28One of the scribes came and heard them questioning together, and knowing that he had answered them well, asked him, “Which commandment is the greatest of all?” 29Jesus answered, “The greatest is: ‘Hear, Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one. 30You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ This is the first commandment. 31The second is like this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.” 32The scribe said to him, “Truly, teacher, you have said well that he is one, and there is none other but he; 33and to love him with all the heart, with all the understanding, all the soul, and with all the strength, and to love his neighbor as himself, is more important than all whole burnt offerings and sacrifices.” 34When Jesus saw that he answered wisely, he said to him, “You are not far from God’s Kingdom.” No one dared ask him any question after that.

Matthew tells the same scene and adds one sentence that changes how to read everything else.

Matthew 22:37-40
37Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38This is the first and great commandment. 39A second likewise is this, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.”

Both commandments come from the Law of Moses. Jesus did not invent them. He chose them, and put them above everything else.

Deuteronomy 6:4-5
4Hear, Israel: The LORD is our God. The LORD is one. 5You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your might.
Leviticus 19:18
18“‘You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people; but you shall love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD.

The world behind the words4 min

The question was a live one. Jewish teachers counted many commandments in the Law of Moses; a later rabbinic tradition, recorded in the Talmud, numbered them at 613. Teachers debated which were "heavy" and which were "light," and whether the whole Law could be gathered into a few principles. The same Talmud passage tells how David and the prophets after him summed up the commandments in eleven, then six, then three, then two, then one. Asking Jesus for the greatest commandment was asking him to take a side in a serious argument.

His answer surprised no one in its parts and everyone in its shape. Loving God was the heart of the Shema, prayed twice daily. Loving your neighbor was a line from Leviticus, tucked between laws about fair wages and laws about mixing seeds. Jesus pulled the second up next to the first and said they belong together: "The second is like this." Then, in Matthew, he went further: "The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments." Every other command hangs from them like a door from its hinges.

The scribe in Mark understood. He answered that loving God and neighbor "is more important than all whole burnt offerings and sacrifices," which meant more important than the entire system of Temple worship he was standing in. Jesus told him, "You are not far from God's Kingdom."

Luke tells a version of the same exchange that ends with a question: "Who is my neighbor?" Jesus answered with a story.

Luke 10:30-37
30Jesus answered, “A certain man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he fell among robbers, who both stripped him and beat him, and departed, leaving him half dead. 31By chance a certain priest was going down that way. When he saw him, he passed by on the other side. 32In the same way a Levite also, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33But a certain Samaritan, as he traveled, came where he was. When he saw him, he was moved with compassion, 34came to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. He set him on his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him. 35On the next day, when he departed, he took out two denarii, gave them to the host, and said to him, ‘Take care of him. Whatever you spend beyond that, I will repay you when I return.’ 36Now which of these three do you think seemed to be a neighbor to him who fell among the robbers?” 37He said, “He who showed mercy on him.” Then Jesus said to him, “Go and do likewise.”
Who's who: Priests and Levites served in the Temple; they were the religious professionals of the day. Samaritans lived between Galilee and Judea and worshiped differently. Jews and Samaritans had despised each other for centuries, so a Samaritan hero would have shocked Jesus' audience.

The lawyer asked who counted as his neighbor, hoping for a limit. Jesus turned the question around. The neighbor is whoever acts like one, and the hero was the man everyone listening had been taught to despise.

Point to this: This is the one teaching nearly every Christian already accepts. When a conversation drifts to rules and positions, Matthew 22:40 is the simplest way back.

How it drifted5 min

Ring 3: church tradition
Rule lists that replaced the two commandments as the measure of faith
The further an idea sits from the center, the more it needs a reason to outrank his words.

Two commandments are hard to measure. Did you love God with all your heart today? Did you love your neighbor as yourself? Rules are easier. You either did the forbidden thing or you didn't. Over the centuries, Christians kept returning to lists.

Between the 500s and 800s, monks in Ireland and Britain wrote handbooks called penitentials. They listed sins and the penance due for each one, often measured in days or years of fasting on bread and water. The handbooks spread across Europe. They were written to help priests guide people toward real repentance, but they turned the moral life into a ledger of offenses and payments. In 1215 the Fourth Lateran Council required every adult Christian in the Western church to confess their sins to a priest at least once a year, and the ledger became a fixture of ordinary life.

Protestants rejected the confessional but kept the lists. Many churches in the 1800s and 1900s defined faithfulness by what members avoided: drinking, dancing, card playing, movies. Some lists went further and wrote prejudice into the rules. Bob Jones University, a leading fundamentalist school, banned interracial dating among its students until March 2000, defending the rule as biblical for decades.

c. 30Jesus: "The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments."
500s–800sPenitential handbooks list sins and their penances.
1215The Fourth Lateran Council requires yearly confession.
1800s–1900sMany Protestant churches define faithfulness by forbidden behaviors.
2000Bob Jones University drops its ban on interracial dating.
Whose purpose it serves: Rules give an institution something to enforce. A list lets a church decide who is in and who is out, and it lets members feel righteous for what they avoid instead of for how they love. A rule against dancing can be checked. A command to love your neighbor as yourself puts every member on the hook every day, which is far less convenient.

What they'll say back3 min

"Rules matter. Jesus didn't abolish the commandments." He didn't, and this lesson doesn't say he did. He said the rest of the Law hangs on these two. A rule that serves love fits. A rule that keeps people from loving, or treats outsiders as less than neighbors, hangs on nothing he said. Even Paul, who wrote many of the rules churches quote, agreed: every commandment is "summed up in this saying, namely, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself'" .

"Love is too vague. People need clear standards." Jesus did not leave it vague. When asked "Who is my neighbor?" he told a story with a specific answer: the person in front of you who needs help, especially if your group has taught you to despise them. Then he said, "Go and do likewise." That is a clear standard, and a harder one than any list.

When you hear these: The first objection treats any criticism of rules as lawlessness, and the second treats love as too soft to count. Neither engages Matthew 22:40. Quote it, and ask which rules they have in mind that hang on something else.

Measured against the center2 min

An add-on
Rule lists are not wrong in themselves, but making them the measure of faith has pushed aside the two commandments Jesus said everything depends on.

Measured against the center, most church rules are additions, not contradictions. Some come from the Law, some from tradition, some from a desire to protect people. But Jesus set a clear order, and wherever a list became the test of faithfulness, that order was reversed. Where a rule actually works against love, as the interracial dating ban did, it does more than add; it contradicts him.

What you noticed is real: many Christians can tell you exactly what their church forbids and very little about how it loves. If you were raised on those lists, you can set them down. Jesus gave you two sentences instead, and a story that makes them hard to escape.

A keeper1 min

The Good Samaritan works for anyone. The question it answers is not "who deserves my help?" but "who needs it, right here?" It asks you to cross the road, even toward someone your own side has taught you to dislike, and to treat their need the way you would want yours treated.

Luke 10:36-37
36Now which of these three do you think seemed to be a neighbor to him who fell among the robbers?” 37He said, “He who showed mercy on him.” Then Jesus said to him, “Go and do likewise.”

You don't need to believe anything to live this way. Many people with no faith at all stop for the stranger on the road more readily than the people who walk past on their way to worship. Jesus' story was told precisely to make that point.

Reflect2 min

  1. When Christians have explained what their faith requires, did they mention love of neighbor, or a list?
  2. Who is the "Samaritan" for the Christians you know, the person they were taught to look down on?
  3. Have you seen a church rule work against love? What was it?

Take your time with each one. There is space to write your answers in the book and the PDF.

Practice this week1 min

This week, notice how the Christians around you describe their faith: by what they avoid, or by whom they help. Write down one example of each. If someone mentions a rule, ask yourself which of the two commandments it hangs on.

Bring it back1 min

1
Common ground
"We both know Jesus named the two greatest commandments. Love God, love your neighbor."
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The bridge question
"If those two are the greatest, which of your church's rules would you put third? And does it hang on the first two?"
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Back to his words
Show them Matthew 22:40, "The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments," and ask: "Is there anything we treat as essential that doesn't hang on these?"
They sayYou can say
"Without rules, people do whatever they want."
"Jesus didn't remove rules. He ranked them. Everything hangs on these two (Matthew 22:40), so a rule that works against love loses."
"My neighbor means fellow believers."
"That's the exact question Jesus was asked. His answer was a Samaritan, the person his listeners were taught to despise (Luke 10:29-37)."
Pass it on: When a believer hands you a list of rules, you don't have to argue with the list. Ask which items on it hang on love of God and love of neighbor. Many believers have quietly wondered the same thing.

Remember it

Two bands, woven

Two sentences, one hinge. Matthew 22:40: "The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments." Love God; love your neighbor. Everything else hangs from them.

Two bands, woven: one green band and one blue band, woven through each other. Love God; love your neighbor.

  1. What two commandments did Jesus name as the greatest?
    Love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength; love your neighbor as yourself.
  2. What did Jesus say depends on them in Matthew 22:40?
    "The whole law and the prophets."
  3. Who was the hero of the story Jesus told to answer "Who is my neighbor?"
    A Samaritan, a man his listeners were taught to despise.
Sources
  1. Babylonian Talmud, Makkot 23b–24a: Rabbi Simlai counts 613 commandments; David reduced them to eleven (Psalm 15), Isaiah to six (Isaiah 33:15), Micah to three (Micah 6:8), Isaiah to two (Isaiah 56:1), and Amos and Habakkuk to one (Amos 5:4; Habakkuk 2:4).
  2. John T. McNeill and Helena M. Gamer, Medieval Handbooks of Penance (1938).
  3. Fourth Lateran Council (1215), canon 21, Omnis utriusque sexus.
  4. Bob Jones University ended its interracial dating ban on March 3, 2000, announced by its president, Bob Jones III, on CNN's Larry King Live.
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